For food, we always go to Hideaway House at least one, great food and drinks, fun vibe. Hilltop Deli is great for sandwiches and lunch. Pump House is good food too. Redwall Distilliry/Loung is a new great cocktail bar, good views and drinks. Sedona Beer Co. is worth a stop if youre a beer person. Mariposa is good if you want a fancy dinner.
Tours try Safari Jeep Tours ar do one of the ATV's. They can go to places the pink jeeps cant and the guides are great. Highly recommend.
https://www.safarijeeptours.com/Download the hiking app, its very informative in selecting what hikes you want to go on.
We stayed at Lantern Light Inn for New Years this past year, good place for couples. Wife liked it alot and our friends that have stayed there be fore also like it, I thought it was meh but I prefer hotels though.